Cryptocurrency and the Abundance Matrix

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In case you missed it, here’s my interview with two cryptocurrency early adopters, Megan Jane and Naada Guerra.

This interview covers all things abundance, consciousness, cryptocurrencies, and the major shift happening within our matrix.

A must-see for anyone wanting to exit the lack matrix and begin fueling the creation of heaven on earth.

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7 Secrets for Empath Life Coaches/Mentors (Free Master Class)

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Another FREE MASTER CLASS from the Abundance Matrix website.

This is for all of you empaths/intuitives who feel called to offer your gifts as a mentor or life coach. Invaluable info.

Don’t forget to stop by my new website for more free Master Classes and everything you need to know about the abundance matrix.

Happy Sunday!

Enjoy!

7 Questions to Ask Before Making Big Decisions in 2018

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I posted these questions on my new Abundance Matrix website, and I wanted to make sure you all received it here on Chakra Center:

To help us usher in the matrix of Abundance in 2018, here are 7 questions to ask yourself before making any big decisions:

  1. Does this decision make me feel expansive and limitless (or restrictive and limited)?
  2. Is this decision a win/win/win (win for myself, others, and the planet — win for my body, mind, and heart)?
  3. Is this decision prompted by what I want (or running from what I don’t want)?
  4. Does this decision promote compassion and understanding (or judgment and criticism)?
  5. Is this decision motivated by love (or fear)?
  6. Does this decision leave room for my humanity (or does it foster perfectionism)?
  7. Does this decision feel authentic to who I am (or patronizing to my inner being)? 

If we continue to make decisions based on survival and fear programs, we only create more lack on the planet.

Choose wisely!

Peace out.

PS. In case you missed my FREE MASTER CLASS on healing the wound of lack in 2018, check it out here.

 

 

Heal the Wound of Lack in 2018!

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Here’s another excerpt from my NEW Abundance Matrix website. Be sure to visit and follow in order to receive all the updates and master classes for Abundance.

To kick things off, here is a FREE mini MASTER CLASS I created to get us all pointed in the right direction for Abundance this year. Get ready to dive deep, cuz we’re doing this!

Cheers to the healing of our planet, and the astronomical abundance that’s about to rain down because of people like you, making the Shift.

 

Take Authority Over Your Life And Claim Your Abundance (Free LIVE)

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In case you’ve missed it, I’ve created a new website that will host all of my new training info for the Abundance Matrix. Here is the latest blog post. Make sure to visit my new website to subscribe so you don’t miss anything.

Declaration for the New Year:

“I delete all contracts, all timelines, all destructive beliefs, all paradigms that are not in alignment with Humanity’s thriving, or with my thriving. I delete them all.

I choose love, I choose to understand, I choose my heart, I choose to feel, I choose to have wisdom about my emotions, I choose not to identify with my emotions or thoughts. I am all things. I am. I just am.

And from that beingness, I choose Love. I choose Abundance.”

Hello Abundance Matrix insiders!

2018 brings a powerful ushering in of abundance, but in order to partake of it, you must learn to tune-in!

The problem is, the lack matrix has taught us to mistrust our hearts, suppress emotions, and downplay our power.

Here’s the thing: True abundance and thriving cannot be coerced or forced — it must be RECEIVED. It takes a willingness to die to the Lack matrix — to the person you were when you believed the world was limited and abundance scarce.

Truth: you are powerful beyond measure and capable of manifesting everything you need.

Fact: You’ve simply given that power away to a system that can has taught you to tune-out of your heart (the well-spring of life) and tune-in to LACK.

Today I want to give you access to a Facebook LIVE I did in the 6 Week Abundance Training for Conscious Creators. In this LIVE, I talk about the power of your heart and how to tune back into your navigation system so you can learn to fully access the Abundance Matrix.

The full 6 Week Abundance Training for Conscious Creators will be available Jan. 8th. When you sign up, you’ll have a full year’s access to the VIP GOLD group on Facebooks where I do Abundance Training LIVE’s every week.

Here’s your first sneak-peak. I recommend taking notes. This info just might save your life.

Click here if you want in!

 

Empaths: You’re Being Intentionally Triggered

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I’ve worked with empaths for the past 6 years and here’s what I have learned:

The Problem: Disempowerment (Lack Programming)

  1. We’re tired and overwhelmed (unbalanced in our relationships with ourselves, our life, and others)-
  2. We’re out of touch with our needs
  3. We don’t understand who we *really* are or why we’re here (or why we feel everyone)
  4. We self-sabotage

Solution: Become Masters of our Creation (Abundance Training)

  1. We need to be empowered
  2. We need to meet our needs
  3. We need to understand why we’re here
  4. We need to integrate our shadow (claim our power and create consciously – become masters of our own matrix).

Highest leverage point: Reset your navigation to abundance. You’re going to feel and it’s important that you do. The answer to the overwhelm isn’t to stop feeling, it’s to stop believing (and fueling) programs of lack.

Why We’re Here:

To help evolve the species into more heart-centered awareness. To overcome the programs of lack through self-love and self-empowerment.

How do we do this?

By ending the war within us. By loving ourselves (our humanity) and restoring our hearts (reprogramming – overcoming the programs of lack.

(AKA: DNA HEALING)

Here’s a video with some more deets:

Want to go deeper? Sign-up for my FREE MASTERCLASS on the Abundance Matrix and learn everything you need to know for the next level of the game.

 

 

7 Day Detox for Empaths: Never Feel Drained Again

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What is an empath?

An empath is a person who feels what others are feeling. Empaths are often helpers, givers, teachers, and natural healers.  Empaths transmute energy.

Am I an empath?

Answering ‘yes’ to the following questions will help you determine:

  1. Do I naturally focus most of my thoughts and emotions on others?
  2. Am I drawn to be a giver, or helper, or a healer?
  3. Do I often have trouble separating my emotions from other people’s emotions?
  4. After busy social events, I feel exhausted or emotionally drained (and often don’t know why)
  5. I have either strong resistance or a strong pull to spending time alone.

Being an Empath (Pros and Cons)

Pros: Emotional intelligence, pulse on the human experience/collective, ability to relate peace12to complex emotions (hold space for the experience of feeling), manifest powerfully, in HIGH DEMAND (everyone needs someone who can hold space for their humanity – especially now)

Cons: Easily drained (when we do not have excellent self-care), easily overwhelmed by energy, do not thrive in dense and stagnate environments, easily manipulated by emotions, easily gas-lighted,.  (That why how you feel is all that matters)

This happens because we have learned to survive by harmonizing the energy around people – if others feel better than so will we (so we think). Unfortunately, the truth is that when we focus all of our energy on the other, we bypass our deeper needs and ultimately drain our life force. Not knowing how to use and empower our empathic abilities can be detrimental to our health.

Here are 5 Steps to Never Feeling Drained Again

  1. Practice excellent self-care
  2. Meet your needs DIRECTLY (what is your deepest vulnerability/need? Meet it).
  3. Learn to say NO (and be authentic about how you feel).
  4. Stop trying to rescue everyone (it is not your job, you’re robbing them of their own empowerment, and draining your own energy in the meantime, it’s nonsensical).
  5. Take up space (especially in your body)

Wanna go deeper?

Join the 7 Day Detox for Empaths (And Never Feel Drained Again!)

This class will give you specific tools and steps to unplug from the lack matrix and step fully into your power.

Each week will provide one simple step to declutter your life and make choices that include your well-being. We will untangle ourselves from commitments and contracts that are not based on the win/win/win, learn to tap into our deeper needs (and meet them directly), and gain tools that help empower our lifeforce (rather than drain it). This is a must-have class for any empath who is tired of feeling manipulated and wants their life back.

All material is pre-recorded, offered on a password protected page, and intended to go at your own pace.

The first 10 people to pre-register receive 1-year access to the VIP GOLD group ($111 value), and admission to a private Facebook group where I will host 3 LIVE chats to connect personally, answer your questions, and help give you the tools to move forward.

Register here!
7 Day Detox for Empaths (Never Feel Drained Again!) $55
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+ 1 Year FREE access to the VIP GOLD for first 20 registered ($111 value)

Class will be released October 17th.

Can’t wait to connect!

Empaths: Include Abundance in Your Plan or Deplete your Life Force

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Now, more than ever, the collective is asking for restoration. Humanity wants its full

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heart back — it is asking for peace. As empaths, we feel both sides of the asking. We feel the call at our deepest levels — the command for a new way of being.

If everything in your life feels shifty right now, this may be a large reason why.

When we serve a lack mindset, fear motivates us, guilt controls us, and shame disempowers us. Lack separates us from our hearts and causes us to compromise our true dreams and desires. Lack depletes our life force.

Abundance is a mindset. It is not about money, it is about resonance. Abundance is a choice.

It is love, not fear that motivates an abundance mindset. Desires fuel us, passion empowers us, and excitement keeps us creating. When we commit to this way of being, we become servants of peace – true masters of the matrix. We beat the game.

However, we cannot step into our role without our full hearts. We cannot receive heaven without the “well spring of life.”

That is why this all seems so scary. Going toward the heart means going toward the wound – the wound of lack. We must meet the unmet needs.

You know you are in the lack matrix if your primary emotions are anger, fear, resentment, and disempowerment. In lack, we fog our clarity, feel disconnected from intimacy, and cut off from community. Lack is ultimately destructive isolation.

Clarity, joy, and creative expression, however, dominate our emotions when we come from an abundance mindset. Abundance connects us to others, ignites our passions, restores our courage, and gives us access to innovation and imagination. Abundance is the ultimate adventure in evolution.

Empaths: Now is the time to let the old matrix die. You are a touch point for the collective, and when you shift, BIG THINGS HAPPEN. You not only free yourself, you free everyone in your world who is counting on you to hold him or her together. You set them free because you embody freedom, and therefore give them access to its reality. True freedom is empowerment, being free from the intermediary.

When empaths make the shift, the world changes.

If you are ready to step into abundance and get your power back, here are seven essential keys to help you captain these new waters.

Happy treasure hunt!

6 Week Bootcamp for Empaths Ready to Step into Their Next Role

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For empaths ready to step into their role as healers/mentors/life coaches, and light workers. The collective is ready for you:

Week 1: Find Your Highest Leverage Points: Define Your Needs, Secure Your Vulnerabilities, Learn the Rules of the Abundance Paradigm 

If you want your business to evolve with the current trend, it must support a lifestyle of thriving and conscious awareness.

Your intuitive, and your business should be built around your unique gifts, not the other way around.

Unfortunately, most business models are trapped in the lack matrix. They don’t take into consideration the full liberation of humanity and the fact that we are evolving into conscious manifesters. The needs of the collective are changing, and if you want to survive in business, it’s important to learn how to line-up to those needs — by getting clear about your own.

In this class, we put emotional/mental/physical expansion first. If it’s not in alignment with your heart’s thriving, it’s not worth investing your time in.

We also carefully go over the 7 Laws of Astronomical Abundance to make sure motives and intentions are in alignment with the win/win/win (if it’s not, the Universe won’t support it).

Week 2: Know Your Niche

Many empaths underestimate the value of their gifts and therefore sell themselves short. This week we focus on your unique empathic gifts and to create a niche with your particular genius. Once you know what you’re good at and how to uniquely define it, your value becomes more accessible and visible to your clients.

Week 3: Define Your Ideal Client (or Ideal Focus)

Knowing everything you can know about your ideal client saves A LOT of time and energy often wasted in generic marketing. Once you know WHO you want to reach, you can speak directly to them (and connect to their resonance with a lil’ manifestation magic).

In week 2, we define every aspect of your client and pin point exactly why you are their perfect match.

(We’ll also cover how conscious manifestation works, and why your resonance and transparency play a far greater role in customer acquisition than advertising or content marketing).

(Hint: It’s all a bit more magical than you may think). This is the next level of business.

Week 4: Create Your Ideal Master Class to Highlight Your Unique Genius (Know Your STORY)

A Master Class highlights your unique genius and is essential to let people see who you are and what you are here to give. In week 4, I give you tools to write the ideal Masterclass that allows you to synthesize, simplify, and emphasize your genius. It’s not really about the class, it’s about getting clear on your value.

We’ll also cover ways in which you can use the Masterclass to highlight your services and create a powerful and strategic dialogue with your ideal client.

Week 5: Self Check-in 

This week we take time to dive deep, meet any unmet needs, and test everything we’ve created against the 7 Laws of Astronomical Abundance (the navigation keys of the Abundance Paradigm).

Let’s crystallize your intentions and make sure your business approach meets the deeper needs of your empire. Week 5 gives you the opportunity to reflect on where you are in the process, and readjust anything that may feel out of alignment with the win/win/win.

Week 6: Finalize Your “Package”

Our 6th and final week is all about finalizing what you offer. By the end of this week, you will have your NEW business model tailored and customized to thriving in the Abundance Paradigm. We will have done the necessary “shadow work” to clear and purify any energetic lines that may have been blocking abundance from flowing into all areas of your life.

This is the perfect class to get you mentally and emotionally prepared to take on your first client (or revamp what you currently offer to fit a lifestyle more conducive to thriving and expansive evolution). Invaluable info that meets the deeper emotional and mental needs of running a business.

This is everything I wish I would have had when I got started.

The class will be held in a private Facebook group with weekly “lives” with me. You’ll have 24-hour access to the content at your convenience.

Class begins November 18th.
Only 15 spots available.

Special Beta Test Price $555


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Interested in 1:1 Mentoring with me? I have 3 mentoring spots available for this class. Fill out the form below and I’ll contact you to see if we’re a right match.

Can’t wait to connect.

And incase you missed it…

The 7 Laws of Astronomical Abundance

Making Love to Your Matrix: An Empaths Guide to Intuitive Living

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*Check out my laster Master Class: Self Sabotage to Self Confidence: A Guide for Empaths Who Don’t Want to Self Destruct

How to Make Love to Your Matrix (rather than being its slave!)

So you want to be a master of the matrix, eh?

Good. You’re in the right spot. Because this entire reality is based upon belief, it seems only logical to assume beliefs are the universal currency. And what fuels beliefs? Emotions. Lucky for empaths, we have that fuel in ample supply.

The question is, how do we cash in our gifts?

Because we’ve been programmed by the matrix of lack to tune out of our primary navigation system (our emotions), we have functioned in a reality in which we believed we could not meet our own needs (we believed we were poor, despite our invaluable resource).

This caused us to develop a slavery mindset and a deep resentment toward the matrix itself — which represents the beliefs we enslave ourselves to.

In the lack matrix, we’re enslaved by these two primary beliefs:

  1. There’s not enough (and never will be)
  2. We’re not enough (and never will be)

Here, you’re in it for yourself. Emotions are superfluous. Deeper needs don’t matter. Make yourself small. Minimize your needs. Work hard. Don’t complain.

Beliefs determine the perspective we have about our reality (and therefore, how it will FEEL to us), so when we have a primary belief of in lack, we will always expect it. And because we have fueled that thought so continuously, it has become a solid reality.

But we can shift it. We can tune into a new thought, a new perspective, and therefore begin to change the way our neurons fire. If we do it long enough, we will create another solid reality, one that reflects the new truth of what we believe. One of abundance.

The two foundational beliefs of the Abundance Matrix are:

  1. There’s enough (and always will be)
  2. You’re enough (and always will be)

We’re in this together (win/win/win). We are in fellowship with ALL aspects of ourselves (body, mind, and heart). Likewise, we’re in fellowship with the other, and the planet. Our war with our humanity ends. We allow ourselves to receive the full restoration of our hearts (the ‘wellspring of life.”). We liberate our humanity from the slavery of lack.

Feel the difference?

Which matrix will you fuel with your emotions? As an empath, YOU are one of the primary suppliers of beliefs on this planet. Use that gift wisely!

In the “Making Love to Your Matrix” class we will learn how to change our core beliefs of lack into abundance (by going back to the original wound for the purpose of restoration).

We’ll learn how to:

*Access our authentic emotions so we can know more clearly what we need

*Reprogram our core beliefs

*Re-negotiate contracts we mad in the lack matrix into new contracts and agreements with the Matrix of Abundance

*Embody our vision

*Embody our dream

*Re-associate triggers for lack into triggers for healing and restoration (love)

This class is especially geared toward anyone ready to move into a relationship with their empathic gifts that benefits all areas of their life (especially their “work.”). You may be someone wanting to start a more intuitive based business, or want to learn to access your intuitive gifts in your business decisions. Whatever the reason, this class is designed to align you into a more personal, intimate relationship with your creations so they give to your life force, rather than drain you.

This is the only time I will be offering this class LIVE (held in a private Facebook group). A perfect opportunity to connect with me more personally and directly (and with others who are learning to love their matrix into heaven, too.

Class begins August 14th. Only 22 spots available. Registration closes as soon as spots are filled!

What’s included’s for FIRST 11 registered participants ONLY:

*1 free 30 min intuitive session with me ($60 value)

*Free access to the Chakra Cleanse class ($111 value)

*Making Love to Your Genie Lamp online class + private Facebook group to connect ($111 Value)

Total Value: $282

Special Offer Price: $111

(that’s a $171 savings!)

What’s included for all other spots:

*Free access to the Chakra Cleanse class ($111 value)

*Making Love to Your Genie Lamp online class (+ private Facebook group to connect) ($111 value)

Total Value: $222

Special Offer: $111

(that’s $111 savings!)

Sign-up now to secure your spot!

Making Love to Your Matrix Online Class $111

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In this class we will learn how to: 

*Create our ideal “genie lamp” (discovering what is most conducive to our unique Genie lamp smokestyle of creating)

*Re-negotiate contracts with our reality (releasing any past contracts and dynamics that are not part of the win/win/win)

*Embody the DREAM (this is where we fine tune our resonance to fully embody our desire and meet our needs directly)

*Reprogram our individual matrix through language, associations, and symbols (in other words, simplifying the game)

*Reassociate triggers to be points of powerful creation rather than detrimental reflections

*Practice tthe magic of affirmations (using our words consciously for healing, restoration, and abundance, rather than for creating more lack).

This class is a POWERFUL restorative tool. Use it wisely.

Can’t wait to connect!

*Please note: If you’ve already taken my Chakra Cleanse class, the “Making Love to Your Genie Lamp” program is still $111. I wanted to throw the cleanse in as a bonus for anyone who hasn’t gone through the process of detoxing their chakras to help prepare for this next step. No further discounts will be offered on this class.

Empaths: This is Resonance Training

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*(Excerpt from the “How to Get Out of the Matrix” online class)

 

3rd Law Of Gold:

Gold clingeth to the protection of the cautious owner who invests it under the advice of men wise in its handling.”

Remember, when we refer to “gold” in this class, we’re referring to our own treasure – the treasure within our hearts. This is our “wellspring of life” and it is crucial to guard, watch over, and protect.

We do this through discernment. Discernment is KEY. And discernment is quite different than judgment. Judgment withholds love based on what we believe is “bad” or “good.” Discernment remembers that love is the key to restoration, and rather than withholding it, love sets boundaries to protect the heart from being drained of life, and its treasure destroyed.

Our treasure multiplies as our love multiplies (especially our love for ourselves). If we don’t love ourselves, we have no motivation to protect ourselves – we willingly stay in slavery because we don’t believe we’re worth saving.

Discernment helps us determine how to best spend the treasure in our hearts, in ways that give us the better returns on our investment. Remember, our inner treasure is self-sustaining. If we learn how to use this treasure to guide us throughout life, it is impossible to be a slave to the Matrix, because we never run out of the Spirit of Life.

When it comes to the Matrix, we must learn to discern how to best put our treasure (hearts) to use to protect us from enslavement.

 THE POWER OF THE HEART

Our hearts govern our emotions, and emotions just happen to be the fastest and most powerful vibrations – much stronger than thoughts. In fact, the Institute of HeartMath has proven the heart to have its own “brain” – about 60 times more electrically powerfully than the brain, and 5000 times more magnetically powerful than the brain.

Now that’s POWER!

Scientist Rollin McCraty wrote: “The heart is a sensory organ and acts as a sophisticated information encoding and processing center that enables it to learn, remember, and make independent functional decisions,”The Energetic Heart: Bioelectromagnetic Communication Within and Between People.

The mind is meant to protect the heart, not exploit it or use it. And herein lies the problem: Since the “Age of Enlightenment” humanity has placed the brain as the “all powerful” function of human capacity, while the heart (and its immeasurable treasure within) as a mere afterthought – even an imposition to our evolution. This couldn’t be further from the truth. When it comes to emotions, we are still in the Dark Ages.

 HEALING THE HEART

A deep wounding has occurred at a very vulnerable level on the planet – it happened at the level of our hearts, our intuition, and our spirits. You could say it is the “feminine” side of humanity (or the feminine principle) and it is this energy that is coming to the surface to be healed.

Your mind alone won’t lead you out of the Matrix of Lack – it will only get you more tangled within its intricate web. Your heart carries the map. This is why it’s crucial to be present, attentive, and non-judgmental towards your vulnerabilities. Forgiveness (of self and others) is KEY to Universal expansion and growth. It is indeed, the key to immortality (aka Heaven on Earth), and therefore, the GATEWAY to stepping out of the control of the Matrix of Lack.

So how do we learn to trust our hearts?

First and foremost, we must remember that our hearts are GOOD. They may be shut down, broken, vulnerable, and misunderstood, but they are our power, and our freedom only comes from the RESTORATION and RELEASE of our hearts from the control of the mind. As the famous saying goes, “the mind is a wonderful servant, but a terrible master.”

Today, spend some time with your heart. Take several deep breaths, close your hearts, place your hand on your heart, and allow it speak to you. Refrain from judging what comes up. What you feel (regardless of what it is – anger, sadness, despondency, etc.) is a MESSAGE for you. And the message is meant to show you where we are on your Life Map. Don’t shoot the messenger. Thank it. Listen to it. If we want to be free from the Matrix, we must allow our treasure to multiply, and our treasure is within the HEART. Don’t bypass it.

Here’s a little message I recorded in the mountains this morning as a reminder for our hearts:

Chakra Center Birthday Sale (All Archived Classes $11.11)

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THIS SELL IS NOW OVER.

Empathic Communication (Normally $33)

Explore what it means to be a master energy communicator,  how empathic abilities can help in conscious manifestation, and how empaths are laying the groundwork for telepathic communication

(geared toward empowered/skilled empaths)

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How to Heal and Thrive as an Empath (Normally $33)

Understand your empathic abilities, focus on healing past emotional wounds, utilize the power of Shadow Integration, and discover tools to help you thrive!

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Empowering Empathic Abilities (Normally $22)

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Learn how to feel safe and empowered as an empath, heal the emotional body, create a healthy energetic hygiene practice, and allow your power to be perceived.

Creating with Emotions (Normally $33)

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Learn about the role of emotions in creating reality, how emotions fuel our point of attraction, the importance of self-trust/healing, the role of desire in creation, the power of NOW, and practices that help remove common blocks to manifesting.

Please type which class you want to receive in the “note” section at check-out. All orders with no class specified will receive the “How to Heal and Thrive as an Empath” course. Classes will be emailed to you within 24 hours of checkout.

Happy Birthday, Chakra Center! ❤

 

Empaths vs. HSP (The Dynamics of Vibrational War)

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Today I received an essential comment on an article I wrote a couple year ago entitled, “Empaths vs. HSP (They’re Not the Same Thing)This article represents a time I was breaking free from much of the interpersonal warfare with some HSP in my family (and learning a TON about my empathic abilities in the process).

You can read the full comment at the end of the actual article,  but I wanted to post some of the highlights, as well as my response back to her.

This comment, I feel, voiced what many HSP feel and wish others would understand about them. While my response is what I assume many empaths feel and wish HSP would understand about us.

Thank you for sparking this article, Crystal! Also, I edited my entire response in the comment section, so I’m sorry if you received a million revisions! 😉

HSP and Empaths — I’d love to hear your thoughts!

Response from Crystal:

“I am truly HSP. The way you describe a HSP on Youtube was degrading and sounded selfish. HSP were born this way, so if you were truly an empath you’d see that and be more understanding of the pain we endure. 

Have you ever thought that it could be your own thinking that created the affliction inside of you because of your thinking of it? Yes, there are truth empaths that experience people’s pain from far. But HSP have already experienced so much pain in our lives that we don’t have to HAVE that person’s pain to understand what that person is going through..

HSP have an extremely, some unbearable nervous system, so with that comes pain and emotion go so deep that it’s far beyond words. I tend to believe that you are not as empathic as you claim to be because you would be more gentle with your output about HSP. A truly HSP is sensitive to the core, physically too. Their skin, hair, and organs are even fragile. It’s not just about experiences, emotions, etc. It’s a physical manifestation from birth that is unspeakable…

Comparing empaths and HSP is like comparing plants. Like a tender violet to a tree. They’re both plants but if you touch a violet it dies. HSP do pick up other people’s energies, the atmosphere, and surroundings very easily and it stays inside us. We tend to be absorbers, picking up others energies is debilitating for us because of our delicate nervous system…

It’s like the old (demeaning) saying “thin skinned people.”

HSP is almost like handling a burned patient. You should be able to sense that if you were a true empath. But it appears there’s no real empathy here for HSP because if there were, your definition would have been more empathetic. It would be muchly appreciated if there were more understanding about real HSP. Thank you.”\

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My response:

Thank you for sharing these thoughts. I agree. I was expressing lower vibrational emotions in this article, which makes us immune to our more subtle sensitivities. I was in the expression of my experience, giving a voice to the unhealed side of my empathic self.

In fact, recently I did a video talking about the jaded place I was in when I wrote many of my articles at this time. I was experiencing emotional pain in relation to my own sensitivity with HSP in my family.

Unhealed HSP tend to use empaths (unconsciously) to feel and express those lower vibrational emotions they reject within themselves, then shame and emotionally manipulate empaths for feeling them. They do this because of a belief that only *certain* emotions or vibrations are acceptable to feel (obviously, this comes from trauma).

Although I was expressing my “war” with HSP in this article, I will always leave it up because it is an authentic reflection of where I was at the time, and the reality of an empath: we feel others – most especially the emotions they reject, suppress, and deny.

The conflict between HSP and Empaths lies here. Many HSP identify so strongly with being “good” that they develop an acute aversion to lower vibrational emotions, which can cause them to construct a superiority complex that demeans and belittles the very REAL human experience of feelings like anger or jealousy, or bitterness.

Because HSP are so sensitive to these lower vibrations, they often project their rejection of these vibrations onto the empath and then paint the empath as the “enemy” for expressing them (which justifies withholding love, or in their mind, their sensitivity to the empath).

This, in turn, triggers the empath’s deep wound of rejection, which can cause them to either try to “earn” the HSP’s love back, or attempt to appease the HSP by promising to change. Both of these options invalidates the emotional experience of the empath, and reinforces the belief that “I can’t feel what I feel because it will hurt someone.” In reality, what we are saying is “I can’t feel what others are uncomfortable feeling.”

A better option for empaths is to validate our emotional state, REFUSE to withhold love from ourselves (or the other) for feeling, allow the HSP to interpret the vibrations however they choose (without taking it personally), and let the emotion go.

The point is, we do not have to modify, minimize, or lie about how we feel. However, understanding the nature of an HSP can certainly help us remember the rejection of emotion is not about US – it is reflective of a deeper wound.

Your response helped me remember the second agreement (from book THE FOUR AGREEMENTS),

“Take nothing personally.”

If an empath allows the HSP’s fear of lower vibrations to be internalized within, we agree to the HSP’s story (lower vibrations = I’m unsafe). This is a profoundly damaging belief for an empath to have, as it causes deep internal conflict about the very essence of what we are. By nature, we cannot reject our emotional experience without making ourselves sick or blocking Life Force.

Although I know it was probably unintentional, your tone in this comment is reflective of this dynamic. Because I was expressing lower vibrational emotions in this article, you imply that I am somehow “unworthy” to call myself an empath and should be ashamed of my feelings.

Spiritual abuse

Your comment also implies one of the biggest misunderstandings humans have about emotions: that they are unchanging and stagnate. Just because I FELT this way over two years ago does not mean this is what I AM. A belief that we ARE our emotions suggests that we are also powerless to them.

Lower vibrational emotions do temporarily mute our sensitivity to higher vibrations (we cannot feel both appreciation and anger at the same time), but getting angry is how we, as empaths, free ourselves from being controlled by the emotional needs of others. Anger helps release us from the co-dependent agreements and interactions that have caused us to self-destruct. (And many times, those co-dependent relationships are with HSP).

Feeling emotions (ALL OF THEM) is not wrong. This article does express my Shadow, my limited perspective, and my projections, but it does not make me any less “empathic,” or my experience of HSP any less valid.

Empaths and HSP are extremely sensitive to each other because they both represent the contrast of emotional vibrations. Ultimately, we are perfect reflections of each other.

HSP may be “born” with sensitivity, but they are not born with the Matrix of lack and fear. Fear of lower vibrational emotions comes from trauma and is the root of why so many HSP feel unsafe in this world. In order to be free, HSP, just like everyone else in the lack matrix, need to reprogram their understanding about what it means to be highly sensitive so it becomes a superpower, not a handicap.

*Special note: These dynamics can exist between anyone (empath, hsp, or not) and vacillate constantly. We all play all roles, but we have patterns, beliefs, and habits that often keep us repeating the same story. We are not saying “this is the ONLY way it is!” but rather, “this is one way it is.”

 

 

Empaths Receive Your Inheritance!

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I’ve been thinking a lot about the leverage points for our current shift. We are entering uncharted waters and many people are clinging like hell to the old matrix of lack, fear, and powerlessness.

Why?

We fear the unknown. Deep down we wonder if we are worthy of abundance. We fear the mistakes we’ve made and we haven’t fully validated, forgiven, and shifted our own pain. Our reptilian minds focus intently on survival, and we make fear our constant reality by supporting a mindset of lack as we affirm repeatedly (through our words and actions) that we don’t have enough.

But what if I told you there is a new matrix currently being built by the dreamers, the creators, and those who dare to imagine the world where we THRIVE? It’s much less populated than the matrix of lack and without malicious competition (because there is plenty for all, and those who come KNOW they are sovereign creators and believe it is their birthright to create worlds!).This kingdom is ours for the taking if we would but receive and hold the vibrational reality of its abundance. It’s given by grace and strengthened through faith.

People don’t talk much about faith anymore. We value the mind above hope and put our trust all too easily in the system that is based on a philosophy of lack. Faith requires us to believe that humans can choose love over fear. It asks us to step outside of the naysaying/doomsday prophecies and use our minds to create something new. It dares us to forgive everyone, everywhere, in all timelines and realities — especially ourselves.

Faith can and does move mountains (as they say). Where are you currently investing yours? What matrix are you putting your faith in?

My hope and prayer is that you’ll join me in your thoughts, expectations, and intention, to create a world of abundance.

It already exists. It’s here. You need only receive it.

Let’s do this!

With all the love and gratitude of my heart!

 

Amanda

PS. Here’s my latest video, in case you missed it!

Empaths Receive Your Inheritance!