As we explore every road that bridges the gap between body and spirit, we arrive at sexuality.
For years and years, people have looked for their connection to God outside of themselves, mostly with the influence of religion. But many are starting to pull their teeth out of the flesh of religion and are coming to a new understanding of where God resides—inside of them. So the question is; what can we learn from our embodiment? And if we are the very expression of God, then how is our visceral sexuality ever corrupt?
This juicy subject holds a vital part of awakening for us (as it’s something we chose), but most of us have found ourselves in an interesting relationship with our sexuality. While religion has been successfully discreet about suppressing it, the media has been very successful at demeaning it. So where can we find a middle ground? The middle ground lies within your own authentic sexuality, but I have found that it’s a lush and radiant ground and once you step foot on it’s terrain and taste of it’s divinity, you will have opened a part of you that sets you free.
All of creation starts with inspiration. Inspiration is an epiphany of the Universe flowing through you, which sets forth the floor for expansion. When one steps into the vortex of inspiration, they become a creator. This is why we see artists, musicians, authors, and poets giving rise to things beyond this world—and call it creativity. In their inspiration, they have entered the vortex of God. But it is my opinion that out of all creativity, there is no greater than sexuality.
Sexual energy is the strongest creative energy on the planet. It is weaving, moving, and breathing in and out of all things, it is the force that begets all life forms. However, Creative God Force is always in a marriage together with the energy of Love. Life does not exist without Love.
Although we are ultimately created from Love, we are also creators that have the ability to control our focus—which invites or does not invite certain things into our lives. If we don’t invite Love into our sexual experience through pure appreciation for ourselves and our partners, we will not experience its full offering. This leads to sex that is out of alignment with the pure vibration of sex.
It is our beliefs about sex that dictate our experience of it. Unfortunately, many of us have experienced very real and understandable conditions, such as sexual abuse or heartbreak, that have altered our beliefs about sex. However, we must not forget it’s true essence—the essence that we were conceived of. We can do this by being true to our own sexuality. Whether it is gay, straight, polyamory, monogamy, delicate, or kinky—there is no way it must look to be of Love. If it is of love, it is in alignment.
The inspiration to merge with another body in this physical dimension is the natural inclination towards Unity and Oneness that is ultimately our home.
The nature of our Spirit is always one of blissful, open surrender; we are simply caught in resistance to it most of the time. In the vortex of sex, the vortex of orgasm—one is taken and surrenders fully. In this surrender, we lose our sense of identity and we taste of our Spirit, making orgasm one of the greatest teachers of non-resistance there is. If we were to stay completely connected to our Spirit, we would be living lives of constant, orgasmic-like pleasure.
Awakening into our sexuality is about opening up closed and desensitized spaces in our hearts and bodies. It is about being a physical offering of Spirit. When we let Spirit expand blocked spaces in our bodies, we become more sensitive to pleasure of all forms in our lives.
All that Spirit offers, is pleasure.